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Comments by Java Mann 

Call it irony or just a strange coincidence, but it struck me as odd that the day my piece on sodomy hit the web, I found an article in the Boston Globe detailing the police shut down of a local S&M club. 

S&M (Sadism and Masochism) is one of those fringe fetishes that most people don’t understand, but can recognize if only from the wardrobe frequently associated with it. From the leather mask-wearing master to the whip wielding dominatrix, it is the fodder of bad comedy routines and B movies. 

Like most people, S&M is not my scene, though I will confess a certain fondness for leather, but unlike most people I’ve actually come in contact with it. I’ve talked to people about it and read books on it, and I have at least a rudimentary understanding of it (enough to know it’s not for me). 

The article in the paper dealt with a private club, housed in an Attleboro warehouse. The police stumbled upon the club by accident while investigating the theft of electronic equipment. The club owner had made no attempt to hide the club, which was located diagonally across the street from the police station. Upon entering the club, the police found about 50 people, some naked, crowded in a few small rooms filled with whips, paddles and other articles of "torture" and a host of "marital aids". Of course, arrests were made.

Of the two people arrested, one, the "Mistress" of the club was charged with assault and battery. The police caught her in the act of paddling the butt of another (consenting) woman. The alleged victim was not available for comment. The owner of the club was arrested as well. His charges included: exhibiting and/or lending articles for self-abuse, keeping a house of ill fame or lewdness, and eight counts of possession of dangerous weapons (meaning whips, chains, paddles, etc.).

What makes this whole scenario amusing (if only to me) is the fact that criminal law had never been applied to people involved in S&M acts in the commonwealth of Massachusetts. In other words, no one really knows if these laws can or do apply to consensual acts of violence for erotic stimulation. A hearing to determine this is scheduled. Needless to say the lawyers, like the cockroaches they emulate, are scurrying out of the woodwork. Everyone has an opinion, and phrases like "Laws such as assault and battery should not be relied on as proxy for enforcing moral judgement about private yadder yadder yadder…." are being bandied about. 

The fact remains that no one entered the club under duress. They knew what to expect and were looking for it. Any "assault" committed was consensual. Everything happened behind a closed door so the public was protected and no one needed to avert their eyes. The club caused no trouble in the neighborhood, and it was open for six months before the police knew it existed, even though it was less than 100 yards from their own front door. 

I guess the bottom line is this: If what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home is legally protected, shouldn’t what two, four or 50 consenting adults do in the privacy of a private club be equally protected? Or rather: As long as it’s done in private and the participants are consenting adults, and as long as no permanent damage is done, do we really need laws telling us what we can or cannot do concerning our own sexual gratification? 

I think not.

But I guess that’s up to the courts to decide.
 


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